We’re hurting here in Victoria. We’ve been in lockdown for months and we’re finding it hard to navigate these uncertain waters. When there’s uncertainty for this long we can feel fatigued from managing it all. Managing the change, our emotions, our physical health, and our social wellbeing can be challenging. Below are some tips shared by the Australian Psychological Society (APS) that may be useful in managing this difficult time.
What is lockdown fatigue?
Lockdown fatigue has been described as a state of exhaustion caused by the long-term effects of COVID-19. It is a state experienced over a prolonged period of time when people have had to come to terms with a virus that has affected every aspect of their life, including their freedom.
Allow yourself to grieve the ‘old normal’
Many people are beginning to miss the pleasures of their old way of life and are grieving the loss of safety and predictability that has resulted from COVID-19. Grief is a natural reaction to loss or change of any kind and
it is important to give yourself time to adjust to new routines and activities.
Dealing with feelings of sadness and loss can make us feel like we are ‘on an emotional roller coaster’ which can cause our behaviour to be unpredictable. This can lead to tensions and conflicts with the people we live with and they may not know how to best support us. Being able to communicate honestly about how you are feeling and how you can support each other may reduce or avoid potential conflict.
Remember, many people will be sharing a similar experience to you so don’t be afraid to share your feelings and be open to accepting help and support from others if needed.
What are the causes?
Most people have never experienced the unknowns related to, and the restrictions imposed by, COVID-19. The unfamiliarity of this situation can be seen through the use of so many terms that we have heard on a daily basis since the COVID-19 pandemic arrived in Australia:
social and physical distancing
unprecedented
feeling unwell – get tested
practise good hygiene
restrictions
quarantining
self-isolation
curfew
daily reported cases
border closures
mandatory mask wearing
All these terms are now a part of everyday language. And recently, ‘lockdown fatigue’ has been added to this growing list.
Understanding lockdown fatigue
Some of the reasons for the fatigue you may be feeling include:
not being able to do what you want to
being cooped up
having to home school your children while trying to work from home
sick of being cautious
being cut-off from normal social interaction
feeling uncertain and anxious about your employment or financial situation
not seeing an end to the changes in your world as a result of COVID-19
worrying about what the world will look like after COVID-19
hearing about some people ‘not doing the right thing’
the inconsistent messages given by leaders and politicians
being bombarded by COVID-19 information.
What does lockdown fatigue feel like?
Some of the symptoms of lockdown fatigue that you may be experiencing include:
short temper with outbursts of frustration, anger and irritability
sadness
depression
anxiety and fear
physical exhaustion and burnout
difficulty focusing, prioritising, problem-solving and making decisions
lack of motivation and reduced interest in previously enjoyed activities
difficulty in maintaining a routine
behavioural changes such as non-compliance with public health strategies, over- or under-eating and increased
reliance on alcohol, cigarettes or drugs
sleep disturbance
negative thoughts like ‘I’m over this’, ‘I can’t see an end to it all’, ‘I’m so tired, I’ve just got no energy or motivation’, ‘It’s getting harder and harder to get out of bed each morning’, and ‘I can’t stand this anymore’
exhaustion throughout the day.
How to deal with lockdown fatigue
Some ideas for managing during this difficult time:
Recognise and try to accept that although you want to return to some sort of normality, this is only possible when it is safe.
Acknowledge your feelings and reactions and try not to be critical or judge yourself. Some ideas that might help to recognise and understand your reactions include keeping a journal, doing meditation or other relaxation, or talking through your feelings with someone you trust.
Be kind to yourself (and others). Accept that you may be more tired, not as productive or motivated as usual, and that you may have a shorter fuse and be more irritable.
Try to create and stick to a routine. It’s common to feel tired and unmotivated when you’re not in your usual schedule, so it’s important to create a routine for your sleep, meals, work, rest and exercise. If you are working from home, take time- out and schedule regular breaks to get fresh air and relax.
Connect with family, friends, and colleagues. Humans are social beings, so one of the hardest impacts of the COVID-19 for you may have been the restrictions on your social contact with people. If this is the case, make the most of technology, whether it be the phone or computer, to speak and/or see the important people in your life on a regular basis.
Make the most of any opportunities to communicate, such as chatting over the back fence or balcony with a neighbour, passing them biscuits you baked or lemons from your tree; speaking to a passer-by as you weed your front garden, or while out walking in your local area; or asking the delivery person how they are as they deliver a parcel.
Spend time relaxing. Do the things you enjoy, whether it be listening to music, reading, watching movies, gardening, working on your family history, playing games, or doing puzzles, craftwork or painting.
Try to balance your negative thoughts with positive ones, to focus on the present and try not to worry about what you cannot control. Remember that Australia is doing really well in managing the risks of COVID-19 and flattening the curve, and that continuing with restrictions will place us in an even better position.
Overall make sure you look after yourself and get some of the following basics right:
eat sensibly
get regular exercise and keep active
sleep well – try and keep to a routine and prioritise sleep,
as the body needs good sleep to restore itself
drink plenty of water
get fresh air and sun if possible.
If you’ve been struggling with lockdown fatigue please don’t hesitate to give our team a call on (03) 9882-8874.
The original source of this article is available here.