Netflix's new series Adolescence has sparked widespread discussion, raising more questions than answers about the realities facing today’s teenagers. With young people consuming content at an unprecedented rate, and the pervasive influence of toxic masculinity from well-known content creators, the series arrives at a critical moment. But does it provide an accurate depiction of modern adolescence, and more importantly, what should parents take away from it?
The Influence of Online Content on Young Minds
Our children are constantly bombarded with information—some of it valuable, much of it concerning. Social media platforms and streaming services shape their views on relationships, identity, and masculinity. When figures promoting harmful ideals gain traction, young men in particular may be drawn into narratives that glorify dominance, emotional suppression, and aggression. One of the most pressing but often overlooked dangers is the subtle radicalisation of boys through online spaces. Harmful ideologies do not always present themselves in obvious ways; instead, they can creep in through seemingly harmless content—humour, fitness advice, or motivational speeches—before shifting into messages that promote misogyny, dominance, and intolerance.
Adolescence attempts to unpack these themes of quiet radicalisation and impact of harmful content on a highly vulnerable adolescent brain. The series offers an unfiltered look at teenage experiences, including peer pressure, social media influence, and mental health struggles. Some have praised it for its raw honesty, while others argue it sensationalises rather than educates. Regardless of its accuracy, Adolescence forces viewers to confront uncomfortable realities, realities that parents cannot afford to ignore.
A Wake-Up Call for Hard Conversations
For many, Adolescence serves as a much-needed prompt to engage in difficult conversations with their teens. Topics such as consent, respect, emotional regulation, and online influence need to be discussed openly and frequently. Avoiding these discussions does not protect children; it leaves them vulnerable to misinformation and unhealthy influences.
Boys who feel isolated, misunderstood, or frustrated may be especially vulnerable to these narratives, as they offer a sense of belonging and identity. Parents and educators must recognise that radicalisation does not always happen loudly or aggressively—it often unfolds quietly, in the privacy of a bedroom, through hours of content consumption, as depicted in the show.
To counteract this, young men need safe spaces to express their emotions, challenge harmful ideas, and build a strong sense of self-worth that is not dependent on outdated ideals of masculinity. Open conversations, supportive peer relationships, and education on media literacy are crucial in disrupting this cycle before it takes root.
'Not My Son'—A Dangerous Mindset
It’s easy to assume that our own children are immune to toxic narratives. However, denial is a risky stance. Exposure to harmful ideologies is not a matter of if, but when. Parents need to be proactive—creating an open environment where their children feel safe discussing what they see online, questioning problematic beliefs, and developing critical thinking skills.
The Parental Struggle: Fear of Getting It Wrong
Watching Adolescence may also bring up difficult emotions for parents—feelings of inadequacy, fear, and uncertainty. The sheer volume of online content, the influence of toxic masculinity, and the rapidly shifting landscape of teenage culture can make it feel impossible to keep up. Many parents worry: “Am I doing enough? How do I protect my child without pushing them away? What if I get it wrong?”
It’s important to acknowledge these fears without letting them paralyse us. No parent has all the answers, and perfection is not the goal. What matters most is being present, open, and willing to engage in ongoing dialogue with our children. Mistakes will happen, but avoiding these conversations altogether is the bigger risk. Seeking support from other parents, educators, or professionals can also help in navigating these complex issues.
A Collective Responsibility: Shaping Healthy Narratives
Protecting young people from harmful ideologies is not just a parental responsibility—it is a collective effort. Teachers, schools, community leaders, and peer groups all play a role in shaping the narratives that young people absorb. Schools should foster discussions about healthy masculinity, respect, and emotional well-being. Educators can teach critical thinking skills that help students question and challenge toxic messages. Peer groups can reinforce positive behavior by calling out harmful stereotypes and supporting each other in developing a more inclusive and empathetic perspective.
Parents, teachers, and society at large must work together to ensure that young people receive balanced, affirming messages about identity, relationships, and personal growth. When we all engage in this effort, we create an environment where adolescents feel empowered to reject toxic influences and build healthier, more authentic versions of themselves.
Final Thoughts
Adolescence has struck a nerve, and rightly so. It reflects the urgent need for parents to be actively involved in their teen’s digital and social world. Ignoring the realities of online influence does not protect children, guiding them through it does. Connecting with our teens is crucial and demonstrating that we can hold a space for difficult conversations. The show may not have all the answers, but it offers an opportunity for families to start asking critical questions.
This blog was written and prepared my Ms Catherine McGrath - Senior Psychologist here at MWG.